Sunday, March 18, 2018

Packing Up and Saying Goodbye

Dear readers,

For the past 15 years, I've been blogging in this space. In 2003, I started this blog, and that same year I started dating Scott, who became my husband in 2004. In 2017 we split up.

This blog has chronicled that entire time together, from dating long distance to getting married to having our three children together to moving back to America to deciding to get divorced.

For most of that time, this blog was titled "Scott and Lori". Even though I've changed the domain name, it still sort of feels like "our" blog. How could it not, which so much shared history right in these archives?

Which explains a lot of why I've not been able to write here much for the past year. Too much of what I once would've written about is now not appropriate for this space. My personal life used to be shared with someone who was comfortable with me sharing it online. But now my personal life is shared in a different way with that person, and sharing it publicly is now a violation of his privacy.

This decision has been a long time coming, but it feels like the right decision and the right time to pack up and close shop. I will keep the blog online. I will keep the domains active. But I won't be writing here anymore. I will likely start either an anonymous blog where I can write about things without violating the privacy of Scott or I may simply write for a couple of other blogs for a little while as a guest writer. Whatever I do, I can't stop writing. I've had writer's block for the past year due to the concern over writing about things that are no longer okay to share, and that's not okay to me. I love writing, and I need it.

If you'd like to keep following me (I do have some great long-time faithful readers), please leave me a comment, and I will link you to my new writing places once I've determined where those will be.

It's bittersweet to say goodbye to this blog, but it's time.

So long, friends, and thanks for all the fish.


2003 - 2018


  1. I'd love to stay in touch digitally x

    1. I'll keep you in the loop, old friend!

    2. I was on your 1995 pakistan team. My name was Stephanie swainston then. Please contact me

  2. I enjoy your writing and would like to be redirected to your new blog site once that is established. You are an exceptional writer. Thanks.

    1. Thanks, Duane. That means a lot! I'll keep you in the loop.

  3. If you don't mind, I'd hate to lose you. I know we have vastly different views of life, but if you're willing to stay connected with me, I'd like to stay connected with you.

    1. You were the top person I thought of not wanting to lose touch with! I will definitely keep you in the loop.


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